LBJ, You’re Better than That

I must admit that I’ve been enjoying my offseason so far! One of the biggest reasons has been due to the great playoff basketball. We’ve had some incredible series with game-winning shots, great defense and lots of action. Throughout everything, one thing I saw the other day really bothered me.

It was when LeBron James chose not to do interviews or shake the hands of the Orlando Magic players who eliminated his Cleveland Cavaliers from the playoffs and ended his Championship run. LeBron is a great player, the face of the league and played great in the playoffs. He really put his all into every game. You can’t take anything away from his performance because his actions on the court spoke for themselves. It’s because he’s a great player and the face of the league that I’m even more disappointed by his actions. I think he made a mistake by not shaking hands or doing interviews. He has to learn to be a better sportsman than that because of what he represents – not just our league but athletes in general. Whether he likes it or not, kids are watching him and following his example. He made a poor choice and I hope if he’s put in the same situation next year or down the line, that he learns from it and goes out there and shakes his opponents hands and does interviews (even if he doesn’t mean it) and demonstrates what sportsmanship is all about.

I think the thing that bothers me most is that he didn’t seem apologetic about not feeling the need to shake hands and do the interviews. When you’re the face of the league, there’s a responsibility that goes along with it. One thing that people don’t realize is that I think he didn’t shake the hands of the Boston Celtics last year when they eliminated his Cavs from the playoffs. (I may be wrong, but I certainly don’t remember him doing it). If this is a pattern, then it’s even more alarming and he’s got to realize it and be better than that.

It’s hard for me to criticize LeBron because he’s usually on top of everything, gets it and does a great job doing everything right. It’s also hard for me to criticize because a few years ago, I was placed in a similar situation and did the same thing LeBron did. I was in a playoff series and my team was losing and on top of that I wasn’t getting any playing time because my coaching staff didn’t feel the need to play me. I was frustrated and when our team lost the series, I walked off the court and didn’t shake my opponents’ hands. I was extremely wrong and want to take the opportunity to apologize to my Washington Wizards fans, teammates, opponents and whoever else was offended by my actions. I hope at some point, LeBron can look back and do the same thing…

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UNC23Tarheels said June 02, 2009

Brendan,since your in the League I can respect your point of view when it comes to the Sportsmanship debate,but in all fairness I can understand why LeBron left the court without shaking hands with the Orlando Players and not talking to the media,let's face facts his Cleveland Cavaliers were basically given the Easstern Conference Title and were supposed to take on Kobe Bryant and the Los Angeles Lakers,But Dwight Howard and the Orlando Magic threw a monkeywrench in their plans and after watching LeBron carry that team on his shoulders this loss probably hurt more then any loss in his fairly young career,so Your right he should of shook the Orlando Magic players hand and Yes he should of spoke to the media but I don't think it was that serious...Good Article keep Posting Great Stuff
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 02, 2009
  
  UNC23Tarheels, I understand what lebron was feeling. I know the anger that was boiling inside, i've been there before but he is a role model and kids look up to him and they mimic his every move. Dean smith told me a long time ago to be gracious in victory and defeat.
  - Mizzy21390 replied June 02, 2009
    
    I agree... LBJ needs to remember that there are soooo many kids who look up to him. I remember growing up playing bball, sportsmanship was the biggest reward and the best thing to do,no matter what. I dont understand the justification so many people keep making for his actions. I really dont see an excuse or any justification. Kobe, MJ, Isaiah etc.. all these greats, shook hands no matter what. There was even a segment on ESPN I watched a few days ago, about when Isaiah and his teammates I think, (I could be wrong, since I wasnt born during these games) lost to the Bulls badly, and they still shook their hands. Its cuz this league is too full hyping up a player, and so LBJ felt salted. Back then, the NBA and the players were more into the sport than endorsments, and spotlight, etc.
    
    I heard that, "Be gracious in victory and defeat" so many times. But I wish LBJ would have thought of that. I really can't understand his excuse for not speaking to the media. Ive never been in that position to say I know how it feels, but still... Little kids follow LBJ. What would the NBA do to see that theres a trend? Or that little kids are starting to ignore their opponents after a loss, or not showing sportsmanship, or not being classy?
    
    The thing thatbothers me the most is that the league did not fine LBJ. Sheed did this to my C's last ECF's, and he was fined 30,000. The league claimed that since LBJhas never given them a problem he wont be fined. Is that fair? Not in my eyes.
    
    All in all, LBJ was wrong. Theres no excuse of saying, "You have to understand where hes coming from.. blah blah" It stll isnt right. Even Kobe doesnt do this type of stuff. When he lost to my C's last season, he still shook hands, and spoke to the media. I blame this on the league for hyping him so much to winning the ECF's, b4 the series even started. Which lead to his embarassment. But LBJ just needs to humble himself.
    
    Read this article...
    http://sports.yahoo.com/nba/news;_ylt=Auo1431xBgX8_KczLj79I6i8vLYF?slug=aw-lebron060109&prov=yhoo&type=lgns
  - I_bleed_green replied June 02, 2009
    
    Guess you shouldve listened to Dean Smith when the Cavs beat the Wiz in the playoffs and you didnt shake their hands. Only now that its Lebron who didnt do it, youre talkin.....like I said, thats what I call a hypocrite.
  - UNC23Tarheels replied June 03, 2009
    
    Spoken like a true disciple of Deanism,RESPECT...
- letsgocavs replied June 03, 2009
  
  Hey Brendan,
  Way to talk about sportsmanship when you were the one trying to harm LeBron in last year's playoffs. Good luck to the Wizards.. NOT!
speedwell said June 02, 2009

A professional athlete who understands the concept of sportsmanship, kudos to you sir.
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fr0arenas said June 02, 2009

(HUGE SIGH) I think that the 15 minutes of ''LebronGate'' should have been over Sunday. The man is gonna be a first ballot HOF when it's all said and done. This is not the first incident in which an athlete/coach as ''eaten HUMBLE PIE.'' Nor will it be the last. Yeah a lot of fans and colleagues may have been disappointed in LBJ's actions but b4 he is the ''FACE OF THE LEAGUE/MVP'' He is also human. We has HUMANS are gonna either ride with him or critique him and in the same breath do both. This will all be water under the bridge and we will forgive him. Thanks Guys.
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HarryPotter said June 02, 2009

i think lebron was being a little girl, but hes still better than the injury faking celtics
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- Mizzy21390 replied June 02, 2009
  
  Harry Potter, why do u continue to troll and have something mean to say about my Celtics???
  - HarryPotter replied June 02, 2009
    
    ...because i hate them
    - sambot replied June 02, 2009
      
      i thought it was because philly is still mad about spygate.
    - Mizzy21390 replied June 02, 2009
      
      I cant see why or how you could hate such a loving team... A team that is real!! :)
      JK Harry Potter, I know of ur hate for my C's.. Im just playing wit u... But for real tho, you dont have any reason to hate them...:)
    - HarryPotter replied June 03, 2009
      
      yes i am mad about spygate, you would be too if you were robbed of a championship, anyways i think pierce is a drama queen, ray allen grabs c*cks, garnett makes retarded faces, rondo hard fouls but when he gets hit he lies on the ground for 10 minutes, glen davis needs to put a shirt on to cover his man t*ts and stop beating children
    - sambot replied June 03, 2009
      
      spoken like a person who isn't thinking rationally harry. imagine if we said that stuff about the eagles? what would make you put your new england hatred to bed?
    - Mizzy21390 replied June 04, 2009
      
      Harry all ur accusations sounds like something personal. Until I see evidence, or stats or any proff ofr ur real hate for my C's, then Ill understand. But all those things dont make sense to me. All those things u named are so stupid. You hate KF cuz he makes stupid faces, Ray cuz he grabs c*ocks?? Since when? PP is not a drama queen. And Rondo sacrifices his body to get those fouls. You dont know if they hurt him bad to say he stays on the floor for 10 min. And BBD that is the dumbest to hate a player. And what is spygate? I thot u were tlking bout the C's... C's dont cheat like uve multiple times on various articles accused them of. If I told u I hated the eagles bcuz they all are ugly, and McNabb is fat and ugly, and his mom and his campbell soup commercials, would that be a reasonable reason to hate a player or team??
      
      Until I get a real answer from u why u hate the C's, then ill come back on here....
- Rudegirl replied June 03, 2009
  
  True True True True True True True True True True True True Now thats statement is truer than Paul pierce "the truth himself" lol
  - HarryPotter replied June 03, 2009
    
    lmao
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I_bleed_green said June 02, 2009

I'm not even a Cavs fan, but the Wizards will never go anywhere as long as Lebron James is in the league. He eats guys like Haywood for breakfast. Oh wait, Haywoods never on the floor for him to do so. My bad.
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 02, 2009
  
  I_bleed_green must be lebron's caddy no wonder he took the comments so personal
  - HarryPotter replied June 02, 2009
    
    what are you talking about, lebrons not golfing right now... oh wait
  - HarryPotter replied June 02, 2009
    
    well mj was supposed to be a good golfer, one thing they have in common
    - I_bleed_green replied June 02, 2009
      
      Brendans never played a basketball game in late may or june...so he should be gettin good on his golf game too lol. Maybe thats one thing he can come close to Lebron at with all the practice he gets.
  - I_bleed_green replied June 02, 2009
    
    Lebrons caddy makes more money than haywood does lol
    - BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
      
      Thats one very highly paid caddy then! LOL! stop posting and go wash lebron's car or something
  - I_bleed_green replied June 02, 2009
    
    All i was sayin is who are you to call him out? You did the exact same thing the last time u lost in the playoffs. So obviously its something that happens in the heat of the moment. How you gonna call someone out and then say you did the same thing lol
    - BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
      
      I_bleed_green If you took the time to read my comments I said that I respect lebron and I hope lebron learns from this. I said I did the same thing years ago and I realized I was wrong and even offered a apology to everybody I offended. I think at some point he has to realize that this was a mistake and not let it happen again.
    - I_bleed_green replied June 03, 2009
      
      Ok, you apologized years later. So maybe you should give Lebron a few years to do the same. Like I said, I'm not even a Lebron fan. Just dont like hypocrites or garbage players who play for garbage teams calling out the best in the world. It makes zero sense. Just admit the fact that you hate Lebron. You've talked your smack many times in the past....and you have no choice but to respect him after what he's done to the Wiz over the years.
    - uthorns335 replied June 03, 2009
      
      Can't wait til your done bleeding.
    - I_bleed_green replied June 04, 2009
      
      lol
GoWizards said June 02, 2009

I got you B. I_bleed_green you are right brendon didnt getting playing time on the wizards this year even with all the injury's, whats funny is he was injured to duma$$.... And i really think your the one on lebrons nuts your talking like you personally know him or something....ANYWAYS whats up with all these amare to washington rumors i love it though jamison and the pick for amare is great( i mean jamison my homie we both from shreveport and all) but amare and gilbert pick and rolls sounds great.. So do it wizards just as long as no other players are included in the deal.

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- BrendanHaywood replied June 02, 2009
  
  Gowizards, I don't think there is any truth to that trade rumor. Sorry my man. Amare is a beast though
tnlf11 said June 02, 2009

OK.. no where did Haywood say he was some big superstar. He's right in saying that Lebron didn't do the right thing. I don't feel that he was attacking Lebron in anyway, but I_bleed_green decided he would make a personal attack on him. I don't think anyone anywhere is taking anything away from the talent that Lebron brings to the game, but being a league player means sportsmanship as well. I'm sure Lebron was frustrated but isn't not like it was physically impossible for him to shake hands with the Magic players. Orlando players deserved at least that. They came into the series what seemed like underdogs and took the series from Lebron and the cavs. Bottom line, its a learning experience for Lebron. I mean the guy is still pretty young. And to I_bleed_green, what team do you play for maybe you can play against Haywood. Good post Haywood, keep it up.
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- I_bleed_green replied June 02, 2009
  
  Right, but the thing is...he calls Lebron out and then says the last time he was in the playoffs he did the exact same thing. So ONCE AGAIN, my point is...how are you gonna call someone out for doing the same thing you did last time you were in the same situation? You don't know that the Wiz hate Lebron and Cleveland? Thats the only reason he wrote this. You havent heard him talkin smack in the media on Lebron in the past? Check out youtube.
  - qbbanks replied June 03, 2009
    
    sorry to burst your bubble but athletes don't take it as personal as fans like you. I doubt it seriously that Brendan or anyone else on the wizards would say they hate lebron and the wizards personally. they probably hate to play them, especially with the calls the refs give him but i doubt they hate them
    - BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
      
      qbbanks Your dead on it, I don't hate lebron at all I actually like watching him play. The NBA is a big fraternity
  - BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
    
    I_bleed _green why are you hating so bad? Your girl must have my name tattooed somewhere on her body! lol
    - sambot replied June 03, 2009
      
      GOLD STAR.
    - I_bleed_green replied June 03, 2009
      
      Yeah, shes your number one fan. She loves 7 footers that average 9 points and 7 boards a game lol
  - tnlf11 replied June 03, 2009
    
    I hear what you're sayin, but....
    a. he's in the league so right there is one up on more people.
    b. Lebron has a bigger fan base then Haywood and I think a bigger impact on the media as well. If not Haywood, then who do you think should atleast say.."yo Bron, maybe that wasn't cool to not shake any
    ones hand"
    I think we have to remember that it's not about whether Haywood is right and Lebron is wrong, but just that as such a huge icon, Lebron should know better and I think he does. He's an all star and future hall of famer, win or lose you have to respect.
tnlf11 said June 02, 2009

OK.. no where did Haywood say he was some big superstar. He's right in saying that Lebron didn't do the right thing. I don't feel that he was attacking Lebron in anyway, but I_bleed_green decided he would make a personal attack on him. I don't think anyone anywhere is taking anything away from the talent that Lebron brings to the game, but being a league player means sportsmanship as well. I'm sure Lebron was frustrated but isn't not like it was physically impossible for him to shake hands with the Magic players. Orlando players deserved at least that. They came into the series what seemed like underdogs and took the series from Lebron and the cavs. Bottom line, its a learning experience for Lebron. I mean the guy is still pretty young. And to I_bleed_green, what team do you play for maybe you can play against Haywood. Good post Haywood, keep it up.
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tnlf11 said June 02, 2009

sorry bout the double post
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steve01 said June 02, 2009

As one of Bron Bron's biggest fans I have to say I am really disapointed in his conduct after the loss. Barry Melrose said it perfectly on Mike and Mike this morning. "Adversity does not build character but reveals it". Labron as been the face of not only his team but also the league not only because of how he plays on the court but also how he conducts himself after the buzzer sounds. This situation makes me step back and realize maybe he does need to grow up a little more. It is easy to be a class act when you are winning but when adversity hits thats when true character shines.
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speedwell said June 02, 2009

So, Brendan, what are you doing this off-season? Vaca time? Hitting weights, trainer, bootcamp what? Inquiring minds want to know.
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 02, 2009
  
  Speedwell, I'm working hard on my game this off-season as well as hitting the weights. I want next season to be my best and I want to build on the career year that I had before. And I want back in the playoffs bad!!!
EazyEagleZ said June 02, 2009

Hey Brendan the Sixers could use some toughness in the middle. How would you feel about joining your old coach in Philly?
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 02, 2009
  
  EazyEagleZ, I wouldn't mind playing for eddie again. we got off to a ruff start but in the end we had a pretty good relationship. philly wouldn't be a bad spot for me, and my contract is up in 2010 anyways so you never know what might happen.
  - EazyEagleZ replied June 02, 2009
    
    I would look forward to it.
  - Qwest336 replied June 02, 2009
    
    Brendan, be careful...people make too much of comments like these sometimes. Ask Chantelle Anderson. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with the comment, but people take things the way they want to sometimes.
    - EazyEagleZ replied June 02, 2009
      
      I take it as what he said and hope for the best. Too far in the future to even tell.
    - Qwest336 replied June 02, 2009
      
      I know YOU do...as do I. But people in the biz and people looking for a story...you know how it goes.
  - 2StepsAway replied June 02, 2009
    
    Hey - I have two of your jerseys tha tI will still be able to fit in 2010, so you better not go anywhere!! LOL
    
    And yes, James was wrong. No bones about it. When the powder clears (lol) he will man up & admit that he was wrong.. Lesson learned. Modesty applies to all...
  - march31user replied June 04, 2009
    
    Boo! You know Eddie benching Gilbert for showing up late is the reason this team was set back for 2 years!! Boo Eddie Jordan!
HarryPotter said June 02, 2009

brenden, did you like playing under eddie?
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 02, 2009
  
  playing for eddie had it"s ups and downs but in the end I can truly say that I liked playing for him
  - I_bleed_green replied June 02, 2009
    
    Is Eddie the coach you were referring to that "didnt feel the need to play you?"
    - Traybay replied June 03, 2009
      
      Dude, you are so getting out of hand and being very disrespectful.
crazyphillyfan said June 02, 2009

I think that Lebron made an honest mistake by going off the court. It seems like to me that he got caught up in the moment of his season ending and simply forgot to shake the hands of the players
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- Rudegirl replied June 03, 2009
  
  Crazyyphillyfan C'mon now its cool that you giving Lebron James the benefit of the doubt but lets be real its 2nd nature or Natural instinct for the lack of better words.. As an athlete It isn't anything you think about. Sportsmanship is apart of the game. I guess he was caught up in the heat of the moment when he shot that "miracle" 3 ptr at the buzzer too huh so much that he DIDNT forget to run over and embrace his teammates and hugged all of them.If thats the case Lebron James is a special case and is capable of doing some strange things in the heat of the moment....honest mistake? o-o-ok thennn
bakabaka said June 02, 2009

I disagree. He stuck around during the piston and hawks series for handshakes with the SWEPT losers. I think being swept like that would be more embarassing and it shows more humility from the other teams to still go out there and represent what fine sportsmanship is. The problem here is that LeBron thinks he's the king, getting caught up in his own stardom and hype. The first real sign of this was the crab dribble nonsense. I am king, therefore I make the rules.
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- 2StepsAway replied June 02, 2009
  
  When you win or lose in a "fair fight" you have to celebrate/suck it up & move on... your comment does once again address the impression that the league favors certain players & teams...
kpope0406 said June 02, 2009

see im a Lebron fan an i love watchin him play..but wat he did was just wrong..you dont do that...he said 'after you get beat up you dont congratulate the person do you' an i see wat he is sayin but in street fights no nor in street ball but professional sports yes. that showed poor sportsmanship period i dont see how you can't say that like i understand his frustration but he is a better person than that an should show it
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sambot said June 02, 2009

people say that he apologized for it the next day in the paper, but the national audience that was watching that game didn't see that. they saw an athlete act like a kid.
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- Mizzy21390 replied June 02, 2009
  
  I dont remember hearing an "Im sorry" more like, more excuses to justify being a competitor and how hard it is. Please, LBJ needs to remember that the greats b4 him, who lost series, wanted it more than he did, and were great competitors also, but what makes him different that he is the only one who cant be classy?? Im just tired of people justifying his actions.
- 2StepsAway replied June 02, 2009
  
  they said James sent an email to the Magic.. Technology - gotta love how it takes the burden off of the face to face thing that people do...
  - sambot replied June 02, 2009
    
    man, even more reasons to dislike the guy. "i could've congratulated in person,but i was too much of a baby to do so, so here's this email/text message! i am the mvp!"
    - Mizzy21390 replied June 02, 2009
      
      What bothers me is that he expected and waited for the Pistons and Hawks to go to him and congratulate him after both sweeps, but when he lost, he can't stand to do the same?? Doesn't make sense. And all it shows to me is that he thinks higher of himself than anyone else in the league...
razah12 said June 02, 2009

In the end his team is still the loser and Orlando is the winner. He has to deal with that.
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DaBirds717 said June 02, 2009

haywood is the man
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w333man said June 02, 2009

We all know that little rivalry with Cleveland knocking Washington in the first round couple times before. Just Wondering, do some of the players on the Wizards dislike Lebron James or was it just a heated thing at the moment? It's just surprising to hear you talk about Lebron James with so much respect and admiration. Your truly an honest guy.
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Justwannawinna said June 03, 2009

I dont think Lebron did anything wrong he has no history unsportsman like conduct...this was a one time thing
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
  
  justwannawinna, this isn't a one time thing. He didn't shake the celtics hands last year either. He can't continue to act like this when he doesn't win. He is a role model
- Mizzy21390 replied June 03, 2009
  
  No, I think he did the same last yr, when the C's beat him in 7 games in the ECF...
- Traybay replied June 03, 2009
  
  Point blank, he showed unsportsmanlike conduct, whether he meant it or it was in the heat of the moment of things. He is a grown man, a professional athlete and this is his job. His job requires him to shake hands after a game, his job requires him to hold interviews...BUT INSTEAD HE threw a temper tantrum and did neither....IT WAS WRONG!!! I like Lebron as an athlete, I think he is amazing, but his action were poor and needs to be corrected. Please people, stop being such a butt kisser that you forget what is right and what is wrong!!!! BTW, LETS GO LAKERS!!!!!
foneal said June 03, 2009

Actually Haywood did not call Lebron out. He was asked the question on talk radio and he answered. He also admitted to doing the same thing and wish he had not done that. I get your point Haywood and I hope now that the crap has hit the fan, Lebron will too. I was more disturbed by his reasoning behind not shaking hands or congratulating the winning team. I found his comments more distubing than the actual act. Haywood can't wait until next year when you can shut up some of these haters on your blog.
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
  
  Foneal, Thanks for the love
100Proof said June 03, 2009

Well as a parent of sons who are big fans of LeBron James, I will make it a point to use this as a lesson of how NOT to handle yourself when you lose. Hopefully, parents and youth sport coaches will do this as well.
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bucknut said June 03, 2009

I do not blame Lebron all for not shaking hands and talking to the media after losing the series. At that perticular moment his emotions were running wild. I am sure that a high percentage of us would do the same thing. The media is talking this up way to much. Why does everyone fail to mention that Lebron did email Dwight Howard the next day congratulating him wish him and his team the best.
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tkelly29 said June 03, 2009

Wow, some people are ridiculous. Much respect for calling yourself out Brendan. You made a mistake, have owned up to it, and are now making a statement that you hope others don't make the same mistake. It's as simple as that.

And word to Brendan: we know that regardless what your stats are, you give a TON to this team. Stats can be skewed to say anything. You play your role well. We love you here.
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- hotplate replied June 03, 2009
  
  Well, Lebron says he emailed Dwight Howard anyway. I didn't hear Howard confirm it.
jaymz77 said June 03, 2009

I think Brendan's point about LeBron being the face of this league has some value. I cannot think of another time when LeBron did not do or say the right thing, other than this small issue. If this is the worst thing that LeBron has done, then I'm glad children can have someone like him to look up to. I do think because of all the media attention an apology is in order, not just him saying he sent an email to Dwight Howard. Not that he needs to apologize to Orlando, but to his fan base for not acting appropriately. This has been blown way out of proportion.
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- leagueofclutch replied June 03, 2009
  
  Why do we need confirmation on his email and apology? Its done and over with. Nobody is talking about Dwight Howard sitting on the bench and smirking, laughing, and making faces at the Cavs during the series. Isnt that unsportsmanlike?
  - jaymz77 replied June 04, 2009
    
    I wasn't saying we need confirmation. I was saying LeBron should apologize to the league, the media, and to the fans, NOT to apologize to Orlando. I agree Dwight was being an @$$ during the playoffs. After they beat Cleveland at the Q during a post game interview he mocked LeBrons pre-game powder thing. I don't think that was very classy.
speedwell said June 03, 2009

LeBron had a big ol' piece of humble pie in the ECF. He's going to need to learn that his little pre-game antics like his chalk show, group picture, and sore-loser-ness will not be well received by anyone except Cavs fans. That moment, where LBJ walks off the court sullen and dejected will go down in Cavs infamy, just like when MJ put the shake-and-bake on Craig Ehlo.
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- sambot replied June 03, 2009
  
  like i said, bowling league.
mseeley said June 03, 2009

Whenever my friend beats me at NBA 2k9, I get so upset. I don't talk to him or shake his hand. I can't imagine how frustrating it is for NBA players.
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- MONSTER replied June 03, 2009
  
  LOL me 2
rossmilton said June 03, 2009

Hey Brendan,
Do you have any idea what kind of workout routine Javale McGee has goin on during the offseason? I think you two could pack a pretty nice one-two punch in the middle for the Wiz next season.
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
  
  rossmilton I Agree with you, I think me and javale would work well together. Im not sure what type of workout routine he has, I've been in charlotte nc since the season ended.
CWBones said June 03, 2009

B....As a long-time Carolina fan, I keep up with alot of you guys, and what you are doing now. Having said that, please start making your blogs more about what you are doing, and not neccesarily how you are feeling. It's like everything you have written so far has been all intellectual. Us fans want to know about off-season workouts, events, parties, team gatherings, etc. We don't really need to know the reasons you think Mike Vick should play this year, or that Lebron was being a bad role model for not shaking hands...
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
  
  CWBones I feel you on wanting to know more about my off-season, but I feel that would be a very boring blog. All i do is workout, play ball, and watch movies. I don't party and I don't see my teammates till training camp so I can't even keep you up on them. Sorry bro
  - CWBones replied June 04, 2009
    
    I got you. And I have agreed with both of your articles about Vick and LeBron. How you feel about those Tarheels next year? We lose alot, but with Deon, Ed, and Tyler coming back, we got a frontline that can play. Then throw in John Henson, and if we can get solid backcourt play, I see no reason why we don't get to the Final 4 again. Do you go back to Chapel Hill very often?
    
    Also, my friends and I run a wiffleball tournament every year. This will be our 9th Annual, and we are looking to make it the best year yet. Any suggestions?? We have Mark Titus throwing out the first pitch. He got thrown out of the NBA draft because David Stern felt that a walk-on entering the draft early was a mockery to the event. How great is that??
mariah9999 said June 03, 2009

I am so glad to hear an NBA player speak up and voice disappointment in LeBron’s actions. It’s unbelievable to me how the league and media have protected him since the end of the game that night especially in the hours directly after it happened. Everyone learns as a child in either sports or any type of competition that your congratulate your opponent at the end of the game or competition, it’s just the right thing to do. It bothers me that fundamental elements of good sportsmanship character have evaded the reigning NBA’s MVP and that there is virtually no accountability for his actions. If the people surrounding him were honest and he was treated more like a human being than a “king”, maybe he would have a chance and see the reality and fault in his actions.
What’s even more upsetting is his reaction the following day to his actions after the game. It’s one thing to realize you we wrong in the heat of the moment and make apologies for what you did. It’s another thing to come out, make excuses and justifications for your behavior. Even in the uproar, he can’t even imagine for a second that he might be wrong. It’s taken days of fans not letting the discussion go away, by means of social networking, Internet, calls on sports radio shows etc., so that TV and radio media finally have to acknowledge it because the fans aren’t happy and think he did something wrong. He is the face of the league and kids look up to him. Maybe he should stop and think about that. I can only hope that he will see that it’s not always all about him and there’s a ripple effect for the actions that he makes as a league superstar. I can only imagine how disappointed fellow team members are that had to go and face the media without LeBron, especially when he’s the first one standing in line for accolades after a win. How do you think Dwight Howard, his Olympic teammate felt when LeBron was too good and too much of a “winner” to shake his hand? I’m sure his fans were hoping to hear words of a promising future from their favorite player. I hope that something or someone will help him to see how important good sportsmanship is to the game.
I was actually at the playoff game you referred to, when you walked off of the court. I am so thrilled to see what an amazing player you have become over the past few seasons, and more importantly, what a wonderful person you’ve become. Your dedication is obvious. Can’t wait to see all that you can do with a healthy team next season!
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MONSTER said June 03, 2009

maybe mr. god qb himself mcnabb should take a page out of haywoods book and actually make comments, and not just post an article and then never say a word after that........post your article on eagles.com for that sh!t.............but good look brendan on actually taking part in what this site is all about and being able to take jabs and give jabs back(unlike mcnabb)......and puttin slow people like i bleed green in there place.
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
  
  MONSTER, you know I had to put I_bleed_green in his place! I had to get him! I couldn't let him slide
  - I_bleed_green replied June 03, 2009
    
    Yep you sure got me Brendan. Right where it hurts lol. You should be proud. At least you have SOMETHIN to be proud of. Cuz we know you can't be proud of 20 mins a game for a 19 win team as a 7 footer. Sike, Im just playin dude, you've been a real difference maker when you're on the court.
    - DCHC_999 replied June 04, 2009
      
      It's obvious from your ignorant comments that your a casual fan of the NBA and especially the Wizards. Brendan barely played last year due to a wrist injury he suffered in the offseason. He played "20 mins" a game as he was eased back in at the end of the season for a the last few games. Would you really put a guy on the floor for a longer period of time when he's coming back from wrist surgery? No, of course not.
      
      You insisting that Haywood is a hypocrite because he did the same thing Lebron did is also false. Haywood did not leave the court because he was upset about losing and being knocked out of the playoffs, he left because he was pissed off at former Wizards coach Eddie Jordan. EJ and BH were not getting along and EJ benched Haywood even though BH is clearly the best center we have and would have helped greatly in the series we played against the Cavs (playing without Arenas and Butler). Wizard fans were extremely angry with EJ for not playing BH during that series. After Brendan left the court, he took his name plate off his locker. We thought he was going to leave the team. Thankfully things were patched up and he agreed to stay.
      
      So you see, Haywood wasn't being a "poor sport" like Lebron. His leaving the court had nothing to do with the outcome of the series, it was frustration from not being played when we clearly needed him.
      
      It's also humorous to see you poke fun at him averaging 9 & 7, when he plays on a team where his main contribution is from the defensive end. Arenas, Butler, & Jamison are asked to do the bulk of the scoring. Haywood does a great job on post defense and he coaches the other players into position as well while on the floor. He does the things that do not show up on the stat sheet, that the ignorant casual nba fans (such as yourself) don't notice because they don't understand the game. Without him, we suffered a 19 win season. Why don't you ask the Cavs if they couldn't have used him against Dwight (Haywood once held Howard to 3 pts in a game).
      
      Btw, it's probably time to update your avatar to an actual Eagle player since Dawkins plays for Denver. Either that or change your name to I bleed blue & orange. Might be better for you to become a Broncos fan since then you can actual root for a team that's actually won a superbowl. lol.
      
      Brendan, can't wait to see you on the court next year playing for a coach that will appreciate what you bring to the Wizards. I hope we can stay healthy this year, that's the only thing holding us back (we need a new medical staff). Please resign with us after next season. The Wizard fans love you. Seriously.
- xraycat replied June 04, 2009
  
  monster i agree, that's pretty cool that fans can actually interact with the athletes, and finally there's one that's down for it. COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
jjisthetruth said June 03, 2009

Lebron has come so far and has shown such poise to be so young in this leauge, but I thought it was pitiful that he couldn't raise his head, as the leader of the Cavs and stay on the court with the rest of his team to congratulate the Magic who were obviously the better team. Regardless of what team your on, between the All star games and the olympics there are so many other players you play with and I just though it made his growth look minimal compared to what it actually was. I hope these young kids dont try that b/c if i remeber correctly coaches will bench kids for bad sportsmanship like that. But hey I guess when your that good who really cares abt character. He can try to get it right next year if hes stays in cleveland b/c they'll be going home again with the team they got...Maybe he should try golf.lol
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foneal said June 03, 2009

As a diehard Wiz fan, I will ALWAYS have you guys back. Win or lose. I just hope that people realizes your value to this team and that you don't go anywhere else after next season. I think that next year when you are playing at 100%, the naysayers will believe :-)

Besides, everyone could see how the lack of your presence on the court this season caused the Wiz to be a bit more defensively challenged than before. No one realized how much you orchestrated the movement of the players with your talk on the court until Jamison pointed out how much your absence hurt.

Please give Javale some good ole down home soul food and some weight training over the summer. Dude has hops but he needs to beef up a tad.

Later
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cuppettcj said June 03, 2009

Brendan, you've really proven your value to the Wizards these past two seasons. How much is it going to take to keep you in a Wizards uniform? Do you have a per season number that you and your agent are discussing yet? As a die-hard Bullets/Wizards fan, I'd really hate to see you leave.
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- BrendanHaywood replied June 03, 2009
  
  cuppettcj, I want to stay in dc and as long as ernie gives me a fair deal then that's were I'll be.
  - nate33 replied June 03, 2009
    
    We hope you stay too. I consider you one of the most underrated players in the game. It's a shame that it's taken so long for the idiot media to recognize your value to the team. You've been a big time difference-maker on the court for 5 years now, yet last season was the first year anybody seemed to notice. Question: have you had any major conversations with Flip Saunders about your role on the team? Will you get more low post touches in Flip's system?
BowlBound said June 03, 2009

LeBron is looked at as one of the new stars and AMBASSADORS of the NBA. Not showing sportsmanship in the loss to Orlando was not the way to promote himself and the league. Losing is always painful, but at least be dignified about it.
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Rudegirl said June 03, 2009

I have alot of respect for Lebron James. Dude has alot of heart and carry himself far more beyond his years.He is the Cleveland Cavaliers... But man Lebron know he is wrong for not shaking the Orlando Magic team hands. I mean maybe eventually he will come and apologize, i think he probably hasnt yet bc he is preparing to watch his Idol Kobe Bryant and the Los Angeles Lakers play Thursday. LOL I think he will have it together by friday. .I remember just last year Kobe caught a beat down by the Boston Pathetics in the playoffs he even shook a few hands b4 he went to the back. Just recently Joe Johnson and my Atlanta Hawks had to shake Lebron and his teammates hands after he SWEPT us like a broom He was all Smiling showing all 32s talking to Cheryl Miller and junk getting praised I even have a picture of him and Varejou laughing at us lol..So now the shoe is on the other foot he wants to haul butt..He need to write a letter and apologize i mean really what makes Lebron so special? maybe he will have that letter Friday morning about how he shouldve atleast gave Van Gundy some dap..dang.
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- jjisthetruth replied June 04, 2009
  
  Thank you Rudegirl that is a great point about the JJ and the Hawks and they got swept after that battle with Miami.
  Its almost like a lil kids, their happy as long as things are going their way. I'm glad the team did't follow their leader or that woul've been an embarrassment to Cleveland
  - Rudegirl replied June 04, 2009
    
    Yes, girl! Joe Johnson and our Atlanta Hawks had to deal with the embarrassment and so should Lebron James. ...Truth be told you can pay for school, but you cant buy class!
ClevelandFan82 said June 03, 2009

Let's be honest folks. LeBron probably would have stuck around and shook hands at least, if Howard hadn't put up that 3 with six seconds to go. The entire year, when the Cavs won by double digits, they never did anything like that to end a game. It was crass and disrespectful on Howard's end. He didn't deserve a handshake, and to be honest I'm glad that LeBron didn't hang around to shake hands. Shaking hands is all well and good for youth league, middle school, and high school. But why does it need to be included in PRO SPORTS? Teams in the playoffs are enemies. Why then should they be expected to buddy up after the game?
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- Rudegirl replied June 03, 2009
  
  Hold up..wait..Are you Lebron James? reveal yourself i wont nobody--->promise lol
- DaRealHibachi replied June 03, 2009
  
  Yeah... We all know Lebron never does anything disrepectfull towards other teams, like all those pre/post game family pictures he's been taking all year... And we all know Lebron can't do no wrong... Always tryin to save face... This time when he says he's no poor sport, when in reality, he is... And that time with the notorious crab dribble, where he truly believes he didn't travel...
  Get of his nuts buddy...
  - ClevelandFan82 replied June 03, 2009
    
    Key words there are "pre/post game". Not during. And as far as the crab dribble goes, I was one of the people who couldn't believe he was trying to justify it. I agreed when people said that it was traveling. 3 steps, without dribbling, is traveling. And try and find me any example of the Cavs the entire season throwing up pointless shots, with no time left, when they were ahead by double digits.
- jjisthetruth replied June 04, 2009
  
  so do you think the rest of the team is garbage because the did??
Reizorc said June 03, 2009

As Charles Barkley once put it.... I'm not a role model...

I hate it when people go around and say oh they should set an example.... People it all starts at home, you teach your kids how to be good sportsman, you do not look for a sports personality to teach your children how to be good sports. You can use them as an example of how not to act, or how to act.

I'm a travel soccer coach and have always instilled in my kids on good sportsmanship. Whether the Ref calls a bad game etc.. they know they shake the refs hand and thank him for reffing their game as well as playing good, clean aggressive soccer and keeping their mouths shut.

We need to take care of this stuff in our own home, not the sports personalities.
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antonlash said June 03, 2009

Lyndon Baines Johnson plays for the Cavs? Hey-oh.
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valleyofthesun said June 03, 2009

For shame on all of you Cleavland fans. Stop making excuses for Lebron. Lebron shame on you. You are not a role model, But you do get paid a lot of money to represent Cleavland and the NBA, Like it or not (myself) included that's what you are(Poster child) for the NBA. I disagree I think Kobe is better and should have been the MVP. Poor sport, you came across as a sore loser. Good luck and maybe you can learn from this.
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chapsdandelion said June 03, 2009

I agree with you 100%. He needs to show better sportsmanship. I think the Wizards set a great example themselves.
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DonkeyMcd said June 03, 2009

Brendan, come over to the wizards forum on Realgm and chat with us.
~Donkey
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Bullets230 said June 03, 2009

Brendan, you said you've been working out alot this offseason which is good to hear after the injury you had. Do you know how Gilbert is doing this offseason? How about DeShawn?
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leequeue said June 04, 2009

Yeah,how is Gil Going now?We want to see him come back with 100% health~
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merajc86 said June 04, 2009

Hey Brendan,
I always get into a debate about how you may be one of the most underrated defensive players in the NBA. I think your stats do not tell the whole story due to your very good help defense and ability to alter shots. I think the Wiz have good enough personnel to pay solid defense (2 years ago, w/o Gil, Wiz made a huge jump in defensive statistics to middle of the pack). What do you think has to be done with the starters so they can bounce back and play solid on the D end this year. Also, how do you feel McGee is picking up on the mental nuisances of playing defense. To me, he has all the talent in the world but just needs to get his understanding up a bit more (which will hopefully happen due to natural progression). Will you work with him later (on the mental side of D) this year when the team reconvenes? Finally, hope you all the best and hope you stay a Wiz for life!
~M dot
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ABrothaDwnUnd said June 04, 2009

In the Youth leagues its mandatory to shake hands! So shall be in the nba
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daddy_b2001 said June 04, 2009

I cant see how it makes a difference or not. He lost, was disgusted, and walked away. Big Deal? Not at all. And Brendan, you speaking on LBJ as the face of the league. You dont know what it is to be in that catagory, so u cant speak on something you have no clue about.
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CBSport1010am said June 05, 2009

We look forward to interviewing you on CBS Sports 1010am Tampa Bay

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dcdanny said June 05, 2009

You're awesome Brendan. Thanks for taking responsibility for that bit of pouting back in the day (2005?). You were in a hard spot and you stepped up since then and proven yourself as a great pro!
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deafjam04 said June 05, 2009

I'm not understanding why Brendan felt the need to even this long comment after doing the same thing. I'm sure a lot of Lebron's fans understand his disappointment. He felt the hurt and so did the Cavalier fans! It hurts when you work your ass off for something and you're the ONLY one working your ass off!
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hockeychick23 said June 05, 2009

I as disappointed in Lebron as well. It made him look like a sore loser and he had bad sportsmanship. I understand it really sucks to lose and it hurts. Lots of players have been in that situation. When guys lose championships, they suck it up and shake hands. Sidney Crosby, the biggest crybaby in the NHL, did the same thing after losing the Stanley Cup last year in his own city. I've sucked it up after losing tough races and congratulated the other team. It's a sign of good sportsmanship and a sign of respect. Lebron can pout and moan about it as much as he wants, after he shows that sportsmanship and respect. He's an amazing player. No doubt but, he kinda looks like a sore loser to me now.
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jebuff said June 07, 2009

Brendan - (ref'd over by thejockosphere.com) - Completely agree with your comments about LeBron. Furthermore, you show a lot of class in not speaking down to him, showing how you learned yourself how important it is to take this step up. We can all understand his frustration, having carried the Cavs that far, but he blew that opportunity to show class. Simple manners means you take your head out of your own difficulties and frustrations (put on a game face if you have to) and simply show the other guy some respect. LeBron will doubtless have other chances to do this, and I hope he hears you. Respect to you.
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marky1 said June 09, 2009

so you think it's professional to purposly foul LeBron, and intend to hurt him but yet cause he didnt talk to the media he needs to learn sportsmanship?
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- upstateking replied June 18, 2009
  
  Exactly he's not the only player to do this in the league and its easy to criticize somebody that knocks your team(wizards) out of the playoffs whenever the wizards make it.So Brendan your telling me everybody shook Lebrons hand when he sent your team packing ?Doubt it Bro
Pac10HO said June 25, 2009

I've had it with Pro sports. Too many cry babies, too many bad calls and make up calls, and everybody is just for themselves and not the team. The Wizards will not win with those ladies sparkling tops. The team looks like a terrible 1970 R&B group that did not make it out of the practice garage. First, get a Mans uniform, then try to play some kind of team ball. Five wannabe Kobes on the court at the same time fighting for ESPN highlights just doesn't work.
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